About
We are originally from Ohio. We met in college studying to be teachers, and in our last year, we decided that we didn't want to teach in Ohio. We took our last Spring Break in college to drive around the mid-Atlantic, and we ended up moving to southwest Virginia to be teachers. He teaches elementary school, and I teach high school English. That was almost ten years ago.
A couple of years after moving here, it became clear that God had brought us here to be a part of our current church body. He has been teaching us, molding and shaping us through this church, and He has also provided to us a family here when our biological family can't be here.
The reason I tell you this is twofold; one reason is that I always want to know the story of the person whose blog I'm reading, and I thought you might want to know that too. The second is a little more complicated. In the months and years after Charlotte was born, I went online to find encouragement, solace, tips and advice. As two teachers, there is no way we could afford for me to stay at home, but every blog that I loved by a Christian woman was written by a woman who stayed at home, usually homeschooled, had several children, and in some cases, grew and canned her own produce. As faithful and wonderful as these women's stories were, they were not the help that I needed. I needed help balancing work and family in a God-honoring way. I needed godly role models to show me that I didn't need to resent my job or my husband's job because I couldn't be home. I needed women to tell me that it was okay that I couldn't be home, and that not every woman is made to stay at home. Even me, I felt sure that I was called to stay at home, and I couldn't. What I didn't need was blogs telling me that if we just made a few sacrifices, we could make it work. We couldn't. We made sacrifices to make our lives work, and that was with my paycheck.
I am where I am because of God's grace. I am not Superwoman, and I am not perfect; I'm pretty ordinary. I am not saying that staying at home is easier than working outside the home. But God has brought me to where I am, and I am grateful for His faithfulness and grace to me. I hope that this blog can be a blessing to you.
As always, Soli Deo Gloria.